Savannah and Kyle in an apple orchard during their photo session at Connemara House Farm in Topsfield, MA

How Your Videographer and Photographer Work Together (And Why It Matters)

When couples build their vendor team, they often book photography and videography separately. Sometimes months apart, sometimes through completely different referral paths. But on the actual wedding day, your photographer and videographer share the same space, the same moments, and the same light.

How well they work together really affects what you end up with. Here’s what I want couples to understand about this relationship, and what to look for when you’re building your team.

Jessica and Jake at the beach during their portrait session in Bourne, MA
Jessica and Jake’s wedding at The Sagamore in Bourne, Massachusetts.

They’re capturing the same moments from different angles

Photography and videography are not competing. They’re complementary. A great photo and a great film clip of the same moment can coexist beautifully. But it requires both vendors to know each other, communicate about positioning, and give each other room to work.

When this relationship is working well, you barely notice it. When it’s not, you end up with a videographer’s shoulder in your ceremony photos, or a photographer stepping in front of the camera during your first dance.

A good videographer knows how to read the room and stay out of the way. A good photographer does the same. And when both are experienced professionals who’ve worked weddings before, the coordination tends to happen naturally.

The timeline affects both of them equally.

One of the most important things you can do as a couple is share your timeline with both vendors, and make sure they each have a copy. If portraits are scheduled for 30 minutes and you want both video and photo coverage, your photographer and videographer both need to know that window exists and work efficiently within it.

Timeline issues often arise when one vendor has information the other doesn’t. A change to the ceremony start time, a new location added for portraits, a reception entrance that got moved up, any of these things can catch someone off guard if communication only happens in one direction. My wedding week checklist has a few more timeline tips.

Tip: if you’re working with a planner, make sure they’re looping in both vendors for any day-of changes. If you’re coordinating yourselves, a quick group text goes a long way.

Closeup of Sabrina's wedding ring and bodice of her dress before her wedding ceremony at Water's Edge Resort in Westbrook, CT
Sabrina and Brett’s Oceanfront Wedding at Water’s Edge Resort

Lighting decisions can affect both photos and video.

This one surprises a lot of couples. Something as simple as where you stand during your ceremony affects how both your photos and your film look.

If you can choose the time of day for outdoor portraits or the direction you face during your ceremony, it’s worth having a quick conversation with both your photographer and videographer beforehand. Their preferences might align, or one of them might have a consideration the other hasn’t thought of.

I always love connecting with the photographer before a wedding day, even just a quick email introduction, so we can flag things like this early.

Experience working together matters.

Some of my favorite wedding days have been ones where I already knew the photographer. We knew each other’s rhythms, trusted each other’s instincts, and could communicate with a look instead of a conversation.

If you’re in the early stages of building your vendor team, it’s worth asking your videographer if there are photographers they’ve worked with and loved, and vice versa. A trusted referral from someone who’s already been in the trenches with them is worth a lot.

Kayla and Joe in front of a barn at Zorvino Vineyards in Sandown, NH during their wedding reception
Kayla and Joe’s May Wedding at Zorvino Vineyards

What to do if they haven’t met before your wedding


It’s completely normal for your photographer and videographer to be meeting for the first time on your wedding day. When that’s the case, a quick introduction at the start of the getting-ready portion can set a great tone. Something as simple as “this is my photographer, this is my videographer, I’m so glad you’re both here” goes further than you’d think. It also helps to know what to tell your videographer before the wedding.

The best vendor teams are collaborative, not territorial. Look for that energy when you’re vetting both.

Want to know more about how I approach each wedding day and what working with me looks like from start to finish? The Experience page walks through everything. Have questions about how I work alongside your photographer? Reach out here!

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About Ashlee

Your Wedding Videographer.

My passion is creating relaxed, candid, and unique wedding films so you can watch your commitment and celebration again and again for years to come.

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